Title: When God Moves In
Text: Ephesians 3:14-21
Topic: Making room for God when he moves in.
Introduction
Halfway point of Ephesians
We are now at the halfway point of Paul’s letter to the Ephesians. The first part of the letter, he shared with the Ephesians what God has done for them. He talked about how God had chosen them, how Christ had redeemed them, and how the Spirit has sealed them. Then we talked about how, through the cross, we are united as one. This is what God has done for them and us. Beginning at chapter four throughout the rest of the letter Paul then talks about how we are to respond to God. Next week we will begin taking a look at how we are to respond to God.
However, halfway through the letter, Paul stops and offers up a prayer for the believers. The prayer is our text for this morning. I believe that it’s very appropriate to stop after God has revealed something to us and pray. We are so eager to respond to God sometimes. God has spoken to us, now we want to get up and get busy. No time to stop and pray Paul. We got work to do. However, I believe that Paul has made a point to us with his prayer. After God speaks, we should stop, listen, and reflect.
Trading spouses
Sometimes Jade and I watch this show called “Trading Spouses”. It’s about families who, being extreme opposites from each other, trade spouses for about a month. One family sends their wife to someone else’s home while they take in the other spouse from the other home. It’s very interesting to watch and see how they respond. At first, they usually start off nice to one another and are excited about the change. Then, over time, they clash. They soon realize how different things have to be with the new parent in the house. They are forced to accommodate the new spouse and change things. Once he or she moves in, everything changes.
Paul’s prayer: When God moves in…
Paul’s prayer is pretty much telling the Ephesians this: When God moves in, your life will change. Just like everything changes when a new spouse moves in on “Trading Spouses”, so it is when God moves in. Paul takes a few moments in his letter to pray and reveal what happens when God moves in. Paul puts the focus not on what we do, (that will come later) but who we are becoming. When you allow God to be Lord of your life, this is what happens. When God moves in, this is what to expect.
One thing that happens when God moves in is that we will be strengthened with power in our inner self.
We will be strengthened with power in our inner self.
In Ephesians 3:16 Paul “prays that according to the riches of his glory, may God grant that you may be strengthened in your inner self with power through his Spirit,”
Our fascination with appearance
We have a fascination with appearance. We really want to look good on the outside, even if it means neglecting the inside to do it. At the beach you see countless people in the trying to improve their appearance by getting a tan without thinking about the effects of sun on their skin. We want pretty smiles so we brush our teeth. Studies show that 94% of people brush their teeth daily. However, only 28% of people floss say they floss regularly and dentists would say a lower amount. We want a pretty smile, but all that really matter is how it looks on the outside. We get caught up with our appearance.
Even the church
Even the church is guilty of being more concerned with outward appearance rather than inward change. When folks become Christians we automatically put new expectations on them. We give them a list of things that they can and cannot do and if they break the rules they aren’t genuinely Christian.
Jesus and the religious leaders
Once when talking with the religious leaders, he compared them to a cup. He said that they were like a cup that was clean on the outside, but dirty on the inside.
Our goal: Spiritual transformation
Our goal above all should be an inner transformation. If we worry about being formed inwardly, we will naturally bear good fruit on the outside. To immediately force rules on new believers is to miss the point entirely of what life in the church is all about.
Knock-out roses
If you walk onto the deck at the parsonage, you will see four small plastic bowls with dirt and what looks to be little sticks in the bowl. My dad used to own a nursery and knows quite a bit about gardening. He tried to get me to help him with his nursery while I was in high school, but after realized that I had a brown thumb, thought that I would probably do better elsewhere. Well, when he helped us move up here we went and visited Duke University because they wanted to see the school. I showed them the divinity school, the football field, and Cameron Indoor Stadium. When we were leaving Cameron, I noticed that they had some knock-out roses planted in the front. So I though to myself, “It would be really neat to root some knock-out roses from Cameron”. My dad agreed. So, while looking over our shoulders to make sure no one was looking, my dad took a clipping from the knock-out bush. I’m currently in the process of trying to root them. Whenever I put them in the soil, they had a nice bud on them. However, my dad told me to remove the buds and leaves because they will absorb all the life for the roots. In other words he said, “Don’t worry about what it looks like now. Just concentrate on the roots.”
Let God transform you
God doesn’t expect us to be perfect. God isn’t looking for people who always say the right things and who looks the part of being a Christian. God is simply for looking someone willing to be inwardly transformed. Once you accept Christ, you begin a process of being formed into a part of the church, being the body of Christ.
Remember, God is transforming you according to the riches of His glory. Let God transform you on the inside. Don’t cheat yourself. Let God clean you up.
Appetizers
Whenever I go to a restaurant my eyes are usually a lot bigger than my stomach. I’ll order something but by the time it gets to me I am already full on appetizers, bread, and salad.
In the same way, we can become consumed and full of ourselves when God is trying to offer us His riches.
God wants to transform your inner self according to His riches. He has high expectations for us. But remember, he does the transforming. We just need to cling to him like a grape clings to a vine.
<em>Paul prays that the Ephesians may be inwardly strengthened. He also prayed that Christ may dwell in their hearts.
May Christ dwell in your hearts.
Ephesians 3:17 says “and that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, being rooted and grounded in love”.
Family moving in
If you are like me, you probably have one or two family members that you don’t necessarily enjoy being around. It’s ok though, because you only see them a few times a year and if more than that, it’s for small amounts of time. However, imagine if that person was for some reason forced to move in with you! Imagine the difference. You could tolerate them seeing them on occasion, but it’s a different story if they move in with you. Then, everything changes!
Inviting Christ to dwell
Once you accept Christ into your life, you are inviting him to dwell. You are inviting him to take up residence in your life. Many times we want Christ to visit with us to provide for us and to try to make us better people. But when it gets a bit difficult, that’s when we want to send Jesus to a hotel and give us some space. However, to be a follower of Christ is to have Him to not only enter your life, but to dwell.
Obviously at first, it will be difficult. Christ invites us into a completely different way of life. To think that someone can handle this change easily is to misunderstand how radical of a life Jesus has called us to. To say yes to Christ is to say no to a lot of other things.
Jazmine and lattice
My stepmom used to have lattice on the front porch. One year she decided to put some jazmine-like vine on the lattice. It didn’t take long for that plant to overpower all of the other plants. She eventually had to remove the vines.
When Christ dwells in our hearts, He will eventually take over. It takes time, but like the vine, His ways will eventually overpower our ways. Soon, we will begin thinking like Christ and living the way that Christ lives.
When God moves in, we will be strengthened with power in our inner self, Christ will dwell in our hearts, and we will have power to comprehend and know the love of Christ.
May you have power to comprehend and know Christ’s love.
Ephesians 3:18,19 says ” you may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpassed knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.
The love of Christ
The love of Christ is so amazing that we aren’t able to comprehend it without Christ’s help. The challenge of the Christian isn’t getting Christ to love us. As a matter of fact, he’s always loved us. Romans 5:8 says that “Christ demonstrated his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” The problem isn’t getting Christ to love us. The issue is understanding his love.
Learning to see with your heart
This love isn’t something that we can figure out. I believe that’s why so many don’t receive the love of Christ. They can’t figure it out. This love goes beyond reason. It takes revelation from God to receive it and know it.
Open the eyes of our heart
Whenever I first became a Christian, the song “Open the Eyes of My Heart” was very popular in the church. The more I think about that song, the more I understand how theologically sound it is. We need God to open the eyes of our heart so that we can see Him and His love.
When we experience Christ, the goal is to see with our hearts and not as much with our minds. To receive the love of Christ is illogical. Pretty much everything that the church stands for in the world is illogical. It takes eyes beyond our minds to receive it, believe it, and live it.
Conclusion
When God moves in, we will be strengthened with power in our inner self, Christ will dwell in our hearts, and we will have power to comprehend and know the love of Christ.
Knock-out roses before
If you were to look at the knock-out roses on my front porch, you wouldn’t see much. All that you would see is a small stick in some dirt. But, despite its appearance, it is still a knock-out rose.
You may look at yourself and say, “I’m not worthy to be a part of the family of God. Compared to all of these beautiful blooms in the lives of others, I look like a worthless stick.” Know this, you are no less a part of the family of God as anyone else. You will one day bloom, as long as you are in the master’s hand. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
